Manifestation ~ the untold story
Important first point if you do not know who you at the very core of your being then any
manifestation of any kind is likely to not make you happy as it was based on an illusion to
begin with.
Plenty of people want the big flash car the fancy house the perfect partner but none of
these things are a cure for loneliness, insecurity, low self esteem or childhood wounds.
Begin with yourself start within then work to the outside.
One thing I know about perfect partners they do not exist. Eventually in all relationships
manifested or not you will need the skills to ensure your union stays healthy and loving. So
what happens if you manifest Mr Right and then your poor communication skills lead to
misunderstandings that lead to arguments that lead to more poor communication? Do you
really think because the universe put this person in your life or you manifested them in your
life everything will simply happen by itself?
If you do not have a relationship or you keep having relationships that fail chances are you
have roadblocks preventing things from happening. Oh My God yes it’s true sometimes you
have to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror whether you want to or not. Do you
have healthy relationships skills? Do you have healthy interpersonal skills full stop? Are you
bringing the past into your present relationships are there things that need to heal? If you
do not answer these questions and merrily go about manifesting your perfect partner all
you will get is an illusion of perfection.
I manifested my partner as I was reading a book at the Doctors one day the Author was
writing about having manifested her soul mate and the steps she took now I wasn’t really
buying it but on the way home I listed out loud the qualities I wanted in a partner. The
Universe did its part and that night I chatted online to a person who I eventually would
marry. Was she my soul mate absolutely why because she challenged me to look at all
those things unresolved in my life we pushed each others buttons yet had each others
back. The moment we met there was a knowing no other word to explain it but it has taken
hard work to get where we are now no magic wand no magic walk through the door and
the rest of our lives will fall into place. Your perfect partner may not be the one you never
argue with but the one whose presence pushes you into growth and understanding.
The other thing that is worth pointing out is manifesting your perfect life does not mean you
will be immune from change or events outside of your control happening. All people go
through the same things eventually such as loss in some form and all of us as we age will
probably be faced with health issues. We can only control ourselves we cannot control
other people or factors in our environment to think that is possible is again to live an
illusion. We can however build up our spirit reconnect with our faith what ever that may be
and we can gather a spiritual strength a knowing that no matter what it will be all okay or
my favorite this too shall pass. These are called coping skills and belief in our own ability to
face challenges and overcome them.
I think the concept of manifestation has been given a commercialized spin. There are many
Guru’s out there saying “invest your money in me and I will teach you the laws of
manifestation”. Well of course their goal of being rich will eventuate because 1000 people
just like you have paid ridiculous sums of money for their courses. There was a saying long
before all these New Age experts came about it went “A journey begins with a single step”
This is what I call the simple man’s guide to manifestation.
1. Find out who you are
2. Find out what you need to resolve and heal open your mind
3. Seek out the resources you will need to develop the skills you need
4. List what makes you happy what brings you joy
5. Remember it is love that sustains the spirit open your heart
6. Decide on a goal then decide what you need to do to make it happen
7. Lists the steps you need to take but be open to all possibilities
8. Then take a step then another then another
9. Remember the saying the strongest of all warriors is time and patience
10. You have to believe in yourself you have to have passion for your dream and you
have to walk through the lessons along the way.
There is no magic about it manifestation is taking the steps necessary to materialize your
goals it is about growth learning development and self belief. And let’s not forget most of
the time it involves a willingness to adapt change and work at both your own self and the
dream you have.
The problem is people believe manifesting is the answer to all their problems that by simply
pasting together a picture book of a perfect life everything will be okay. Well when I was
younger I wanted storybook parents didn’t get them though I wanted a prince charming
didn’t get him either I wanted to be rich and famous that didn’t happen either. I wonder
what would happen if I had tried manifesting all those things I believed would make me
happy. Ironically now I have grown spiritually and emotionally I realize none of those
things….were things that would have made me happy. They were simply things I would
have used to fill up the holes of loneliness and low self esteem.
This is not an article designed to say people who offer manifestation courses are corrupt
that is a judgment and only you can decide for yourself the benefit of such courses for some
people they may be the right pathway. It is simply meant to give you something to think
about for ultimately I do not know what is right for you only you can know that.
Important first point if you do not know who you at the very core of your being then any
manifestation of any kind is likely to not make you happy as it was based on an illusion to
begin with.
Plenty of people want the big flash car the fancy house the perfect partner but none of
these things are a cure for loneliness, insecurity, low self esteem or childhood wounds.
Begin with yourself start within then work to the outside.
One thing I know about perfect partners they do not exist. Eventually in all relationships
manifested or not you will need the skills to ensure your union stays healthy and loving. So
what happens if you manifest Mr Right and then your poor communication skills lead to
misunderstandings that lead to arguments that lead to more poor communication? Do you
really think because the universe put this person in your life or you manifested them in your
life everything will simply happen by itself?
If you do not have a relationship or you keep having relationships that fail chances are you
have roadblocks preventing things from happening. Oh My God yes it’s true sometimes you
have to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror whether you want to or not. Do you
have healthy relationships skills? Do you have healthy interpersonal skills full stop? Are you
bringing the past into your present relationships are there things that need to heal? If you
do not answer these questions and merrily go about manifesting your perfect partner all
you will get is an illusion of perfection.
I manifested my partner as I was reading a book at the Doctors one day the Author was
writing about having manifested her soul mate and the steps she took now I wasn’t really
buying it but on the way home I listed out loud the qualities I wanted in a partner. The
Universe did its part and that night I chatted online to a person who I eventually would
marry. Was she my soul mate absolutely why because she challenged me to look at all
those things unresolved in my life we pushed each others buttons yet had each others
back. The moment we met there was a knowing no other word to explain it but it has taken
hard work to get where we are now no magic wand no magic walk through the door and
the rest of our lives will fall into place. Your perfect partner may not be the one you never
argue with but the one whose presence pushes you into growth and understanding.
The other thing that is worth pointing out is manifesting your perfect life does not mean you
will be immune from change or events outside of your control happening. All people go
through the same things eventually such as loss in some form and all of us as we age will
probably be faced with health issues. We can only control ourselves we cannot control
other people or factors in our environment to think that is possible is again to live an
illusion. We can however build up our spirit reconnect with our faith what ever that may be
and we can gather a spiritual strength a knowing that no matter what it will be all okay or
my favorite this too shall pass. These are called coping skills and belief in our own ability to
face challenges and overcome them.
I think the concept of manifestation has been given a commercialized spin. There are many
Guru’s out there saying “invest your money in me and I will teach you the laws of
manifestation”. Well of course their goal of being rich will eventuate because 1000 people
just like you have paid ridiculous sums of money for their courses. There was a saying long
before all these New Age experts came about it went “A journey begins with a single step”
This is what I call the simple man’s guide to manifestation.
1. Find out who you are
2. Find out what you need to resolve and heal open your mind
3. Seek out the resources you will need to develop the skills you need
4. List what makes you happy what brings you joy
5. Remember it is love that sustains the spirit open your heart
6. Decide on a goal then decide what you need to do to make it happen
7. Lists the steps you need to take but be open to all possibilities
8. Then take a step then another then another
9. Remember the saying the strongest of all warriors is time and patience
10. You have to believe in yourself you have to have passion for your dream and you
have to walk through the lessons along the way.
There is no magic about it manifestation is taking the steps necessary to materialize your
goals it is about growth learning development and self belief. And let’s not forget most of
the time it involves a willingness to adapt change and work at both your own self and the
dream you have.
The problem is people believe manifesting is the answer to all their problems that by simply
pasting together a picture book of a perfect life everything will be okay. Well when I was
younger I wanted storybook parents didn’t get them though I wanted a prince charming
didn’t get him either I wanted to be rich and famous that didn’t happen either. I wonder
what would happen if I had tried manifesting all those things I believed would make me
happy. Ironically now I have grown spiritually and emotionally I realize none of those
things….were things that would have made me happy. They were simply things I would
have used to fill up the holes of loneliness and low self esteem.
This is not an article designed to say people who offer manifestation courses are corrupt
that is a judgment and only you can decide for yourself the benefit of such courses for some
people they may be the right pathway. It is simply meant to give you something to think
about for ultimately I do not know what is right for you only you can know that.
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